Grow a Backbone: The Evolution of the Mollusk to Leader
Tuesday, April 28th, 2009My eleven-year-old daughter unearthed a new, highly technical business term: the mollusk. While preparing for a science test she asked me if I knew what such a creature was. Because I’d fallen asleep in 10th grade science class (I didn’t tell her this), I replied, “Nope. Do tell.”
“It’s an invertebrate, meaning it has a hard outer-shell and no backbone.”

Unbeknownst to my daughter, in that moment she helped me prepare for a test – an important leadership exam. Recently, I had made a mistake at the office, and rather than owning up to it I was being defensive. And I was delaying, delaying, delaying the steps needed to rectify the situation.
Translation: I had the outer shell: defensiveness. And I had no backbone: I was unwilling to take action. I was an office mollusk.
Mollusks turn into big elephants for a lot of teams, evidenced by the fact that so many organizations move at a snail’s pace. (Those who didn’t fall asleep in science class caught the intended pun: The snail is a mollusk.) Teams with mollusk-mania often hear these phrases:
- “I could never have that conversation with him. He’s my boss.”
- “Let’s ensure we have 32 meetings to discuss this before we make a decision.”
- “I didn’t do anything wrong. He’s the butthead.”
- “Don’t even try. The budget will never get approved.”
- “I wouldn’t say anything if I were you. CYA, baby.”
It’s time to lose the defensive shell and grow a backbone. Here are the words our team will hear me utter more often:
- “I take responsibility for this.”
- “I recommend we…because…”
- “What can we do to move this forward – faster?”
- “These are the facts…and here are possible solutions.”
How strong is your backbone? Will you pass your leadership exam today?
Where will you lead – where will you stomp elephants – today?

Are there people on your team who are confused because the manner in which they conducted business in the past isn’t working anymore? And, do you know people who are frozen, unsure what to do next, because they’re puzzled about the future?
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